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Tuesday, November 12, 2019

To the Man I Loved Before... Thank You. || To Him From Her Series


Sometimes we overlook the goodness in every goodbyes we had in our lives because we dwell too much in pain. Then later in our lives, we got the courage to smile back to our painful past and turn it to a beautiful memory instead. And now that I can be that woman who can smile back and laugh about the past, I just wanted to tell you this... Thank you, especially to the man I loved before.

Thank you for giving me a chance to see myself and understand my worth as a woman. Because back then, my world is you and it was not Me & You. And now I understand that love should be equally shared by both of you, to make it work and make it last.

Thank you for letting me go and allow me to find someone who will love me despite of all my flaws and still love me even I don't feel loving myself. Because if I hold on to you, I may not see the other way of loving myself and won't allow others to love me for who I am. Because back then, I'm young, insecure and felt a need of validation from you to let me feel better.

Thank you because we both choose to grow separately and find our own happiness. Because, if We stayed with our relationship, I'm sure both of us will not be happy and we won't see a better way of loving ourselves and someone else.

Don't get me wrong. I don't hate you now and I know you're not a bad person, We are just young and on progress of growing back then. We don't really have firm decision and just a curious cat about love before. 

But now, I'm really grateful about what we had before because without you or if I didn't experience that kind of love, we will not grow as a better person now and find love that we both deserve. So thank you, for being part of my past and hoping for your happiness.

29 comments:

  1. Aww so sweet..and brave..i adore you mizdee for being a toughiest woman..God bless you..πŸ’–πŸ˜πŸ™

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  2. Wow! Your a toughiest woman mizdee i adore you for that..God bless..πŸ‘πŸ˜πŸ™

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  3. Relate with my past.but thanks to him i found the better one for me.

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  4. Sometimes letting go is much easier than staying in a relationship that could only cause you much heartache and pain,how i wish i could let go too..

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  5. Oh, parang ung pinsan kulangnto ah
    Kung mababasa nya to. For sure masasabi nyang tama ang ginawa nya.

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  6. I salute you ! Such a toughiest woman πŸ‘πŸ‘
    God Bless πŸ˜‡πŸ™

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  7. Minsan talaga sa buhay natin may mga bagay na ipagpapasalamat natin dahil nangyari yun , kasi kung hindi natin naranasan yung mga bagay na nangyari noon hindu natin mararanasan yung mga bagay na meron tayo ngayo.

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  8. Such a brave woman. ❤️πŸ’™πŸ’›

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  9. I salute you ma'am for being so tough and brave. While reading this article naramdaman ko ung pain but in the end ung hope. Eto ung pinaka hardest part NG buhay na mahirap talagang gawinπŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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  10. Nakakainspire naman ito ate mizdee. Sarap basahin.

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  11. Ang ganda po twice ko binasa😊 naisip ko tuloy si xπŸ˜‚ kasi kung di rin po ako nag let go wala po sana akong happy family ngayon😊

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  12. Sa lahat namn ng blogger n nababsa ko any mga blog post nila sayo lng biglang May kung ano sa damdamin ko ang napukaw n mga katagang "To the man I love before".may kilig ,May saya at lungkot ng nabasa ko ito.I salute you ,You are a brave woman no one can bit you.You strong personality.

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  13. “In the process of letting go, you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself.” – Deepak Chopra

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  14. “In the process of letting go, you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself.” – Deepak Chopra

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  15. naalala ko tuloy First love ko yung father ng panganay ko😊 pero ok lang po at thank you kasi napangiti at napaluha ako sa memories❤️

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  16. naalala ko tuloy First love ko yung father ng panganay ko😊 pero ok lang po at thank you kasi napangiti at napaluha ako sa memories❤️

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  17. Woow your so brave mis dee ❣ yan din nmn gnawa ko noon �� and now i found da one for me ��

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  18. God has already lined up the right people for you. People that will inspire you, challenge you and motivate you. If you will let go of the wrong people, then the right people will show up..

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  19. You deserve to be Love Mizdee.Thank you for sharing your ❤️ story. Totoo yung sinasabi nila na once na nagmahal ka handa ka ring masaktan, dun mo makikilala ang sarili mo...

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  20. Wow, I can see myself, I can super relate. Keep.on fighting 😘 we are a woman. We are strong

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  21. We need to be brave. πŸ’•πŸ‘
    Beautiful one mizdeeπŸ’•πŸ’•

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  22. Maybe you're not meant fo each other, that's why you both separated. One day you'll find your forever and I believe in your guts, you're such a brave woman, kind and easy to lov . Goodluck mizdee, godbless u and your lovelife soon��
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